In the past, we’ve interviewed several sugar babies (both men and women) as well as sugar mammas to chat about their experience with sites like Seeking Arrangement and Log and Meet, where men and women get gifts to date, and find people willing to support them. Each interviewer had varying experience with sugar dating websites, with some sugar babies and sugar daddies ready for long term relationships. Here, we interview a sugar daddy whose experience on Log and Meet made him Happy with his dating preferences – and to address his own experience with women on sugar dating websites like seeking.com and logandmeet.com
Tell us about yourself.
I’m a founder and CEO of a Toronto Construction company. My net worth is 10$ millions. I travel a lot, but I’m based in Montreal . I got divorced about 2 years ago, and when it came time to get back into the Dating world, I realized I couldn’t go back into conventional dating. I’m 50 years old but I look more like 40. I’m in perfect fit, I work out all the time, and I have the mentality of someone in their 30s because I just love to have fun. I jump out of planes, you know? I’m just one of those out there.
Why did you feel like you couldn’t go back into The normal dating world ?
My schedule is too tight at the moment. When I dated conventionally, it always followed the same routine like : meet a girl, get to know her, take her on dates, as they like it. Then I start my crazy travel schedule for my business in Toronto , then there’s an awful lot of stress and texting: When are you coming back? Where are you? Are you cheating ?… all drama.
So I thought: okay, what if I financially support someone and when I’m here, I have the company of someone I enjoy. It seemed like the perfect solution. Just to gift someone for their time and dates with me .
I started using those two sites because I thought it was the only way to meet women who have not been disappointed by the dating life and who were looking for the same easygoing type of relationship.
What do you mean ?
I just found that as women and men age, they get more fed up by their dating experiences. They create within themselves a negative bias as a standard going to date procedure. I went on many dates with women in their 50s, and what I found consistent between all of them was that they were all looking to find out how I could hurt them or leave them, even from date one .
Then I happened to meet a friend’s cousin, who was 27, for dinner, and we talked for 4 hours. It was so incredibly fun, just amazing to me. I thought that maybe I should start to date younger women. It became clear to me that normal dating wasn’t going to work with my lifestyle . I wasn’t meeting younger women in the bars I went to, and when you go on a site like Tinder or whatever, you aren’t going to find many women on there who are open to dating a 50-years-old guy. And that’s how I found Log and Meet.
Who did you happen to meet on Log and Meet?
There were two women I met on that site. The first woman was the “upfront woman.” I met her for a drink and she was very open about the fact that as long as there was some chemistry, she would meet with me on a daily basis for gifts. Unfortunately, that’s not really who I am. I need more of an emotional connection with someone, even though it might sound weird.
The next woman was someone I would call a “girl next door.” The type of girl you wouldn’t think to find on a sugar dating website, as she’s looking to find an emotional connection, but she needs financial assistance. So I dated her for four to five months. After two months she said that she didn’t want my allowances or gifts anymore, that she was just really enjoying getting to know me. It made me understand that she wasn’t looking for a long-term financial benefit, and that you can have a real chemistry-laden relationship with someone from a sugar dating website.
What happened to that Girl?
Over the next three months, the age difference was there in our faces . I remember I went out to brunch with her and her friends, and someone was whispering, you know, Whose dad is that? It didn’t really impact me, but I saw the look on her face. When we talked about it later, she said she wasn’t necessarily prepared for that. So we decided to stay friends.
Did you want monogamy?
I didn’t expect monogamy, but I was asked for it. So I told, okay, well you have to be real with me, not just honest. If you have feelings for someone else then just let me know and we stop it. That should be the best part about a site like Seeking Arrangement and Log and Meet is you don’t have to lie. Like, this is who I am, this is my life, if you want to be with me under these conditions then we’ll be together for a longer term !
What about now ?
I’m still on those sites (sugar dating websites). I’m also trying secretbenefits.com right now but the platform doesn’t really attract me, looks more for younger people. My favorite one is logandmeet.com so far as there are less fake profiles. You know, those perfect girls with amazing pictures, but who never answer or even read your messages. At first you think okay, I’m not her type, but when 10 different girls do the same, then you realise that they’re most probably fake profiles that there is to attract more sugar daddies.